Question by William R: How do I develop a better social network after years of neglect?
Well, I am 28, and getting divorced. I made my wife my life for the past 8 years, and now with out her, I have to try and pick up the pieces of a neglected social network and start all over.
Any advice?
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Answer by hooperbobber
I have been in that situation about 4 times and only the last time I found my peace without any social network as I just gave up.
Then when at peace, it is easy… as soon as you meet a few nice people who have a network of their own, you have a network of friends.
Then these friends know other people who know other people and you are back into it.
But my peace is so soothing, I refuse to give it up to go and waste evenings on people.
I guess my peace comes from the huge network of souls that makes up the big WWW.
For instance I run 4 dating sites! I could get to choose if I wanted to but I choose my peace and privacy instead.
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August 27th, 2010 at 4:36 pm
Hi William,
Twenty eight years young, and no place to go…
I have found it helpful to start doing things you enjoy, but didn’t have time for, in the relationship. You can check with your local community college to see if there are any non-credit, night classes that would interest you. Learning something new is stimulating, and fun at the same time.
There is also the local co-ed gym. Exercise always helps clear away mental cobwebs.
Volunteer your time for a worthy cause of interest to you, if what you have right now is too much time on your hands.
Lastly, free online dating sites can be fun, especially those that have local get togethers, and dances.
Hang in there. It get easier!
Hope this helped you.